Happy Last Day of School & Any Advice About Girls & Middle School?

shadesManic:  No manic today because it is the last day of school!  Well except for my son having finals today at his high school and two more days of hockey tryouts and my daughter and I preparing to leave in a few days for her show choir competition, etc., etc, etc….but not near as manic as usual and that is a nice feeling.

Managed:  Catching our breath and celebrating a very successful school year for my kiddos!  They both had a big year with my girl earning her first straight A report card and my boy receiving a certificate yesterday for his 4.0 grade point average during his Freshman year.   Plus he was in 11th grade math, even though he is only a Freshman, so I’m impressed and I don’t know where he gets his math gift, as it is not from his parents! Today, on this last day of my son’s Freshman year (can he really be a Sophomore now?!) and on this last day of my girl’s grade school years, I say happy last day of school to you and to yours if this is your last day, too.  And if it is not, it is coming soon!

As my girl departs elementary school, she asked me to buy cookie dough, so I did and this is what she made her teacher, all by herself, with no help from me whatsoever (I love that they are older now and so independent)….cookie

 Can you guess what it stands for?  Best Teacher Ever and I love this.  Her teacher did, too.

So now she is off to middle school and even though my son has already successfully been through middle school, I hear it is a different experience for girls.  I’m told that junior high is harder on the ladies.  Why is this?  Any advice for this Mom of a now middle school girl?  Please share your best tips and experiences. We’ve got a couple of months of summer break, so I would love to hear your thoughts as we ease on in to middle school.  Leave a comment here in the comments section and have a great summer break :)

 

On My Daughter’s Promotion Day, I Celebrate My Girl & Her Amazing Teachers

appleManic:  Elementary school these last 12 years.  With my daughter finishing up grade school today and heading to middle school…and after my son’s six years there as well, I can now say that grade school is done!  And it was good.  And it was manic because the start time of 7:40am was early.  And the many school activities filled our calendars and competed with my kids’ other activities such as hockey and theatre.  And the pressure to do well on the AIMS test, achieve perfect attendance and more…whew!  I honestly don’t remember grade school being so high pressure when I attended.  Was it?  Do I forget?

Managed:  Celebrating the baby of the family finishing up grade school and heading on to middle school.  She is so ready!  Today is her promotion ceremony and we are very proud of our girl.  I congratulate her on an amazing year with her huge achievement of finally bringing home a straight A report card.  She worked for that for the last two years since they don’t give letter grades until the 4th grade.  She only missed one day of school and that was when the nurse called me at 8:15 am two weeks ago because the tummy flu got my girl.  She was never tardy, not one day.  So I give her a ton of credit.  You go girl!

But I must also give her teacher, Mr. Middleton a huge shout-out!  When you get a good teacher, a truly amazing leader who really invests himself (or herself) into the well being of the kids….who challenges them with projects that require the kids to think out of the box and when you find a teacher who truly gets your kid…the pros and the challenges of that particular personality…you just won the educational lottery.  Mr. Middleton and many of Lexi’s teachers through the years at Sierra Elementary School served her well and I choose today, in this post, to say thank you!

Here are some highlights from this year and past years with examples of how a variety of our teachers went above and beyond.  I thank them.  Check these cool examples out…

This Year:

*Mr. Middleton was new to our school and we had heard through the grapevine that he was adored at his previous school.  From day one, Lexi came home excited about her energetic, humorous and creative new teacher who had big plans to get them beyond ready for middle school.  The first day matters and he set the tone just right.

*With every project, he made it interesting.  Instead of having kids write a bio, they took on a complete character with props, a costume and a presentation that all parents were invited to attend.  Alexis was thrilled and dove right into her biography report about Jane Goodall.  Here she is, all smiles, after her presentation….presenation

*When she had to learn about a state, she chose Kentucky and preparing a meal that related to that state was part of the project, so she was thrilled to learn that Kentucky Fried Chicken truly had ties to Kentucky.  She helped me to research a fried chicken recipe and we worked together to make it from scratch.  She truly did most of the work and she was very proud of the finished dish, which she took to school as part of her report.  I must tell you that this Skillet Fried Chicken recipe is the best that I’ve ever had, so try this recipe that calls for buttermilk, cayenne pepper, garlic and other yummy ingredients.  Again, Mr. Middleton’s creative ideas made learning and presenting really fun for Lexi.  Here is a picture of that yummy chicken frying away in peanut oil…definitely an indulgence that was worth the educational calories. ckn

*Mr. M. held early morning prep workshops for kids that wanted a little extra help preparing for AIMS testing.  I couldn’t believe it when my girl was up and at em at 6am because she didn’t want to miss it.  He also offered math workshops and she participated in some of those after-school events, too.

*With every extracurricular activity, Lexi’s teacher cheered her on, wished her luck, congratulated her and attended her “Christmas Carol” show at the Ahwatukee Children’s Theatre.  She was beaming with pride when she spotted her teacher in the packed audience.

*Mr. M. was fair and gave us honest and helpful advice at her parent teacher conference about topics that included her perfectionism and whether or not to place her in honors middle school classes.  He was careful to ask if we were interested in his advice and we found it so valuable.  It takes a village and to get his perspective balanced with ours is a real advantage for our focused daughter, who at times puts too much pressure on herself.  Mr. Middleton is one of those teachers that goes above and beyond and Alexis will never forget him.  She has told us so.  Thank you Mr. Middleton.

I could truly go on and on, but I want to also mention a few other highlights from our years with some amazing teachers.

*In Kindergarten, wonderful Mrs. Willis identified Alexis’ perfectionism right away and worked with us to devise a plan to help her manage the big goals that she puts on herself.  She had a rule that Lexi could only start over once.  She also discovered that our little girl was musical, so she incorporated a solo by Lexi into a school program that taught language arts skills.  Confidence and stage presence was born that day and our girl has never looked back since.

Years ago when our boy was in Mrs. Willis Kindergarten class and now years ago when our girl was with her...she is one amazing teacher!

Years ago when our boy was in Mrs. Willis Kindergarten class and now years ago when our girl was with her…she is one amazing teacher!

Both of my kids (and hubs and I, too) adore Michelle Willis and we will never forgot the gift that she has been in our lives.

*Lexi’s 1st grade teacher, the amazing Holly Martin, helped Lexi with some challenging social skills that year when it came to ignoring the mean actions of others and taking the high road.  Academically Lex loved learning from Holly Martin, too….just as our son had years earlier.

*Her 2nd grade teacher told us that our girl was a bit behind in the reading department, but she was careful to never the use word “behind” with our girl.  Instead she challenged her to read more, talked her into attending a special reading class and encouraged her to the fullest.  When Lexi left Ms Carmichal’s class and started a very academically challenging 4th grade year, her reading was up to par.

These are just a few examples.   I have many more.  Teachers work in a job where they make a difference every single day and when they are good…the opportunities for your child to thrive are endless.  From our incredible Kindergarten teacher Michelle Willis to this year’s highly adored and amazing 5th grade Mr. Middleton….I can’t thank you enough for leaving your mark and making a difference in the lives of my most prized possession….my kiddos!

Cheers to the teachers :)

Sad Statistic Shows 100 Animals Are Euthanized Daily in Valley Shelters, So Help Us Change That By Reading This Post!

 

pets

When I heard that statistic, I knew I had to do something more.  Our family has adopted three cats from our local shelters and several months ago I fostered a cat.  If you didn’t see my story about fostering Oliver the cat and having him neutered, immunized and placed with an amazing family, be sure to read it because it is a great story with a happy ending.

Oliver the fab foster cat....one of the most loving kitties our family had ever met!

Oliver the fab foster cat….one of the most loving kitties our family had ever met!

So our family has done what we can so far to help with this incredibly sad issue.  But recently I heard about another way that I can help and so can you and it is easy as reading this article and taking a pledge.  No money needed, no commitments, just read below and then take the pledge at the link provided to help spread the word about the Fix. Adopt. Save. Pledge! that will greatly reduce the number of homeless animals and worse, the high number that are put down when they don’t get adopted.

The Fix. Adopt. Save. program is formed of an alliance of eight animal welfare agencies, backed by multi-mullion dollar philanthropic support.  All have joined together to solve Maricopa County’s homeless animal problem by launching the “Fix. Adopt. Save.” campaign – a collaborative effort to encourage responsible pet ownership, and to dramatically increase spay/neuter and pet adoption rates in the Valley.

Never before have this many organizations come together to tackle dog and cat homelessness in the Valley, helping animals and communities in the process. The three-year effort will provide 44,000 free spay/neuter surgeries and prepare an additional 7,000 pets for adoption to reduce euthanasia of homeless pets. Nearly 90,000 animals per year end up in shelters with too few being adopted.  This is good news and managedmoms.com fully supports this wonderful program!

The Fix. Adopt. Save. campaign aims to “change the equation,” for homeless animals in Maricopa County. For every 100 homeless animals who are adopted in Maricopa County, 100 others are euthanized. This equation is simply unacceptable.

Join us. Take the Fix. Adopt. Save. Pledge and be a part of our community pledge to save this innocent and sweet animals. 

I took it and all I had to do was check a box that gave me an idea of what I can do to help with these efforts.  There are several boxes to choose from and since we have already adopted three cats and fostered one, I checked the box that suggests to help the spread the word and writing this post does just that.

So take the pledge and tell us in the comments section about a pet that you have saved.  Here are our three cats that were all adopted from shelters and all three of them are great pets and definitely loving members of our family….

Our sweet Stanley with his beloved Gingerbread man.  So cute!

Our sweet Stanley with his beloved Gingerbread man. So cute!

 

 

Our handsome Tucker boy.

Our handsome Tucker boy.

 

 

Little Lucy girl that was adopted from a shelter by our tween daughter who told us that she wanted to save a black cat since so many people walk past the black ones.

Little Lucy girl that was adopted from a shelter by our tween daughter who told us that she wanted to save a black cat since so many people walk past the black ones.

I will raise a paw to that and say cheers to the Fix. Adopt. Save campaign.  Join me!

 

Weekly Pet Pic: A Dog On A Cat Tree??

This week’s pet post comes from one of my favorite bloggers, Trisha with momdot.com.  Be sure to check out her cool and very popular blog.  When I asked her permission to use this funny picture from her website, she wrote me right back and told me that her family has six rescue pets!  Kudos to them for their kindness and ability to give six lucky animals a loving home.  Here are several of the pets and when I saw her dog using a cat tree, I just had to make that this week’s pet pic….

Not only is Trish's dog is a good friend to her cats, but he is also a  good watchdog with his bionic ears.

Non only is Trish’s dog is a good friend to her cats, but he is also a good watchdog with his bionic ears.

I just love this funny picture!  You can see more of Trisha’s pet articles, parenting articles, recipes, giveaways and more at her momdot.com blog  Thanks for sharing Trish!

This picture reminds us to find some quality play time with our pets this weekend because it is good for them and for us humans.  Send us your pet pics.  We love to post them and we have received some great ones so far.   Click under the Pet Pic section to see the gallery.  Email you pet pics to [email protected] and have a great weekend.

Freebie Friday Winner!

Who is our Freebie Friday winner today?

What did our winner win?  Keep on reading!!  And remember if you are a subscriber, then you are automatically entered in our weekly drawing for great prizes that include beauty items, cookware,  jewelry and more!  Lots of cool stuff!  Now, let’s announce this week’s lucky winner….

 

This week’s Freebie Friday winner is:

Pat French from Gilbert, Arizona! 

(winner selected through random.org)

Pat won….

pats prize

A beautiful Bath & Body Gift set from LUSH that is called the Lovely Gift and the goodies inside include the Secret Garden Bath Bomb, Ro’s Argan Body Conditioner and more.   Here is what is inside the lovely wrapped box….

in box



Pat also won a very special and pretty Prosperity Candle that is part of a line of beautiful handmade candles manufactured by female entrepreneurs in and from distressed regions of the globe.  candlesProsperity Candles work with women who are from distressed parts of the world who have survived conflict or natural disaster. They are now rebuilding their lives. They come from places that include Burma, Haiti, Rwanda, Iraq and Afghanistan. These women make these beautiful candles and other gifts.

Each candle sold helps give them more security and income. The money they earn through Prosperity Candle helps them invest in education, health care and food for their children.  So this is truly a gift that gives back and you can even connect with the woman who made the candle.  The website has a connect page where you can read her bio, see her picture and send her a message directly. This is such a cool gift that gives back.

Congratulations Pat and thank you so much for being a managedmoms.com subscriber!  We appreciate it!

And we will have more great prizes next week, so stay tuned for that and become a subscriber to be automatically entered into the weekly drawing that we do through random.org! 

HOW TO ENTER NEXT WEEK’S FREEBIE FRIDAY…

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The beautiful LUSH gift box was kindly provided by LUSH and the lovely Prosperity Candle was provided by Prosperity Candle.  Thank you to both companies!  All opinions about the effectiveness of the products are 100% my own. 

 

 

Beauty Product Packaging Put To The Test

Manic:  Figuring out which beauty products are worth their weight when it comes to the fancy packaging they are displayed in on the drug store beauty aisle shelves.

Managed:  The last time I did this type of segment, the producers and the viewers told me that they really liked it, so here it is again, but with a different set of beauty products that we tested to see which ones are packaged to deliver and which ones are a bit misleading with fancy packaging that doesn’t deliver.  Stay on your beauty budget with us and take a look…

Great Gift Ideas For Gals

In case you missed my Mother’s Day Gift Guide segment that aired last week on KTVK, here it is again with some great ideas that work for all kinds of occasions.  If you are looking for a graduation gift, birthday gift or any other special occasion, here are some unique gift picks that I showed in my Mom’s Day segment, but work well for other occasions, too.  Plus there are some unique items based on the personality you are shopping for, like a digital gift card that can be sent directly to your recipient’s phone or tablet, a yummy and reasonably priced new line of wines and more.  Check it out…

My Favorite Mother’s Day Cartoon Image

In honor of all you Moms out there, here is my favorite Mother’s Day cartoon image that I viewed this week on Facebook.  There are a lot of them out there, but this simple and cute image says it all.   Take a look…..

cartoonHave a great Mother’s Day everyone!!

Driver’s Permit Day is Coming! Any Advice For This Anxious Mom?

Manic:  The sheer number of miles and wear and tear I put on my car with the never-ending rides my kids need to school, practice, rehearsal, appointments, games and more.

Managed:  In just 4 days, my first-born gets his driver’s permit.  Then in November, he will have his driver’s license.  I have to admit that I have mixed feelings, of both joy and anxiety.  So please give me some advice about how to best guide and teach him with his permit.

He is ready to drive me around starting next Wednesday when he gets his permit.  Am I ready?!

He is ready to drive me around starting next Wednesday when he gets his permit. Am I ready?!

Here are my questions….

1.  Did you hire a professional driving school?  I plan to for sure.  Suggestions on who to call?

2.  Did you let your child drive you on the freeway before or after the professional driving lessons occurred?

3. Do you have any rules in place while your child drives you around with the permit?  Like no radio turned on?

4.  Here in Arizona, we get six months to teach our kids how to drive, which seemed fine to me in the past, but now that our six months is starting, it doesn’ t seem so fine anymore.  Now it feels like a massive responsibility that is placed squarely on the shoulders of myself and my husband.  For those of you that have been down this road (literally), did six months seem like enough time to let your child free behind the wheel?

5.  How about advice on what types of driving skills to teach.  Defensive driving comes to my mind as well as the right-away, yielding, pedestrians rules, etc.  What additional skills did you find were helpful to teach?  How about what to do in a skid?

6.  Did you let your kid drive you around every single day during the 6-month period to get the utmost experience?

7.  When did you let your child drive you around at night?

8.  Some of you have advised that we do this in stages.  First let junior drive us around parking lots.  Then the neighborhood.  Then the side streets, main streets, followed by freeways.  Your thoughts on this?

9.  And last but not least, advice for how to manage my own Mama stress as I sit next to him teaching and guiding, but without the comfort of having my own steering wheel and brake pedal?  I will take advice in this area, too!

So as you can see, this Type A mom isn’t so sure that I’m going to be a good driving teacher, but I have no choice.  That time has arrived and it is my responsibility to get him as experienced as possible before that scary and exciting day arrives on his 16th birthday.  On that day that he so anticipates in November, I have to step back and wave goodbye to him as he drives away on his own, for the first time.  Boy, that is getting here fast now and in some ways, I’m ready and in some ways, I’m not.  Here we go.   The teenage driving journey begins!

Freebie Friday Winner!

Who is our Freebie Friday winner today?

What did our winner win?  Keep on reading!!  And remember if you are a subscriber, then you are automatically entered in our weekly drawing for great prizes that include beauty items, cookware,  jewelry and more!  Lots of cool stuff!  Now, let’s announce this week’s lucky winner….

 

This week’s Freebie Friday winner is:

Kelly D’Ambrosio from Albany, Georgia!  

(winner selected through random.org)

Kelly won….

Just in time for Mother’s Day, a beautiful Bath & Body Gift set from LUSH that is called A Mother’s Day In Paradise gift set…mom gift

 

This beautiful gift box is packed with luxurious bath items from LUSH that include the Secret Garden Bath Bomb, the Comforter, which is LUSH’s all-time, best-selling bubble bar, Dream Cream body lotion and more!  Congratulations Kelly and thanks so much for being a managedmoms.com subscriber.  We appreciate you!

 

And we will have more great prizes next week, so stay tuned for that and become a subscriber to be automatically entered into the weekly drawing that we do through random.org! 

HOW TO ENTER NEXT WEEK’S FREEBIE FRIDAY…

Do you want a chance to be in the Freebie Friday drawing for next week?  If you are a subscriber, you are automatically entered!

If you are not a subscriber, subscribe now at www.managedmoms.com.  Simply subscribe to the website by filling out the area in the right hand column that says “subscribe to managedmoms.com.”  Being a subscriber means that you simply get a notification email each time we run a recipe, article, beauty tip, coupon and more.  We don’t share your email address with anyone and you are automatically entered into the weekly Freebie Friday drawing for your chance to win a cool prize every Friday.  It is that easy!

The beautiful LUSH gift box was kindly provided by LUSH.  Thank you to LUSH!  All opinions about the effectiveness of the products are 100% my own.