On My Daughter’s Promotion Day, I Celebrate My Girl & Her Amazing Teachers

appleManic:  Elementary school these last 12 years.  With my daughter finishing up grade school today and heading to middle school…and after my son’s six years there as well, I can now say that grade school is done!  And it was good.  And it was manic because the start time of 7:40am was early.  And the many school activities filled our calendars and competed with my kids’ other activities such as hockey and theatre.  And the pressure to do well on the AIMS test, achieve perfect attendance and more…whew!  I honestly don’t remember grade school being so high pressure when I attended.  Was it?  Do I forget?

Managed:  Celebrating the baby of the family finishing up grade school and heading on to middle school.  She is so ready!  Today is her promotion ceremony and we are very proud of our girl.  I congratulate her on an amazing year with her huge achievement of finally bringing home a straight A report card.  She worked for that for the last two years since they don’t give letter grades until the 4th grade.  She only missed one day of school and that was when the nurse called me at 8:15 am two weeks ago because the tummy flu got my girl.  She was never tardy, not one day.  So I give her a ton of credit.  You go girl!

But I must also give her teacher, Mr. Middleton a huge shout-out!  When you get a good teacher, a truly amazing leader who really invests himself (or herself) into the well being of the kids….who challenges them with projects that require the kids to think out of the box and when you find a teacher who truly gets your kid…the pros and the challenges of that particular personality…you just won the educational lottery.  Mr. Middleton and many of Lexi’s teachers through the years at Sierra Elementary School served her well and I choose today, in this post, to say thank you!

Here are some highlights from this year and past years with examples of how a variety of our teachers went above and beyond.  I thank them.  Check these cool examples out…

This Year:

*Mr. Middleton was new to our school and we had heard through the grapevine that he was adored at his previous school.  From day one, Lexi came home excited about her energetic, humorous and creative new teacher who had big plans to get them beyond ready for middle school.  The first day matters and he set the tone just right.

*With every project, he made it interesting.  Instead of having kids write a bio, they took on a complete character with props, a costume and a presentation that all parents were invited to attend.  Alexis was thrilled and dove right into her biography report about Jane Goodall.  Here she is, all smiles, after her presentation….presenation

*When she had to learn about a state, she chose Kentucky and preparing a meal that related to that state was part of the project, so she was thrilled to learn that Kentucky Fried Chicken truly had ties to Kentucky.  She helped me to research a fried chicken recipe and we worked together to make it from scratch.  She truly did most of the work and she was very proud of the finished dish, which she took to school as part of her report.  I must tell you that this Skillet Fried Chicken recipe is the best that I’ve ever had, so try this recipe that calls for buttermilk, cayenne pepper, garlic and other yummy ingredients.  Again, Mr. Middleton’s creative ideas made learning and presenting really fun for Lexi.  Here is a picture of that yummy chicken frying away in peanut oil…definitely an indulgence that was worth the educational calories. ckn

*Mr. M. held early morning prep workshops for kids that wanted a little extra help preparing for AIMS testing.  I couldn’t believe it when my girl was up and at em at 6am because she didn’t want to miss it.  He also offered math workshops and she participated in some of those after-school events, too.

*With every extracurricular activity, Lexi’s teacher cheered her on, wished her luck, congratulated her and attended her “Christmas Carol” show at the Ahwatukee Children’s Theatre.  She was beaming with pride when she spotted her teacher in the packed audience.

*Mr. M. was fair and gave us honest and helpful advice at her parent teacher conference about topics that included her perfectionism and whether or not to place her in honors middle school classes.  He was careful to ask if we were interested in his advice and we found it so valuable.  It takes a village and to get his perspective balanced with ours is a real advantage for our focused daughter, who at times puts too much pressure on herself.  Mr. Middleton is one of those teachers that goes above and beyond and Alexis will never forget him.  She has told us so.  Thank you Mr. Middleton.

I could truly go on and on, but I want to also mention a few other highlights from our years with some amazing teachers.

*In Kindergarten, wonderful Mrs. Willis identified Alexis’ perfectionism right away and worked with us to devise a plan to help her manage the big goals that she puts on herself.  She had a rule that Lexi could only start over once.  She also discovered that our little girl was musical, so she incorporated a solo by Lexi into a school program that taught language arts skills.  Confidence and stage presence was born that day and our girl has never looked back since.

Years ago when our boy was in Mrs. Willis Kindergarten class and now years ago when our girl was with her...she is one amazing teacher!

Years ago when our boy was in Mrs. Willis Kindergarten class and now years ago when our girl was with her…she is one amazing teacher!

Both of my kids (and hubs and I, too) adore Michelle Willis and we will never forgot the gift that she has been in our lives.

*Lexi’s 1st grade teacher, the amazing Holly Martin, helped Lexi with some challenging social skills that year when it came to ignoring the mean actions of others and taking the high road.  Academically Lex loved learning from Holly Martin, too….just as our son had years earlier.

*Her 2nd grade teacher told us that our girl was a bit behind in the reading department, but she was careful to never the use word “behind” with our girl.  Instead she challenged her to read more, talked her into attending a special reading class and encouraged her to the fullest.  When Lexi left Ms Carmichal’s class and started a very academically challenging 4th grade year, her reading was up to par.

These are just a few examples.   I have many more.  Teachers work in a job where they make a difference every single day and when they are good…the opportunities for your child to thrive are endless.  From our incredible Kindergarten teacher Michelle Willis to this year’s highly adored and amazing 5th grade Mr. Middleton….I can’t thank you enough for leaving your mark and making a difference in the lives of my most prized possession….my kiddos!

Cheers to the teachers :)

Weekly Pet Pic: A Dog On A Cat Tree??

This week’s pet post comes from one of my favorite bloggers, Trisha with momdot.com.  Be sure to check out her cool and very popular blog.  When I asked her permission to use this funny picture from her website, she wrote me right back and told me that her family has six rescue pets!  Kudos to them for their kindness and ability to give six lucky animals a loving home.  Here are several of the pets and when I saw her dog using a cat tree, I just had to make that this week’s pet pic….

Not only is Trish's dog is a good friend to her cats, but he is also a  good watchdog with his bionic ears.

Non only is Trish’s dog is a good friend to her cats, but he is also a good watchdog with his bionic ears.

I just love this funny picture!  You can see more of Trisha’s pet articles, parenting articles, recipes, giveaways and more at her momdot.com blog  Thanks for sharing Trish!

This picture reminds us to find some quality play time with our pets this weekend because it is good for them and for us humans.  Send us your pet pics.  We love to post them and we have received some great ones so far.   Click under the Pet Pic section to see the gallery.  Email you pet pics to [email protected] and have a great weekend.

Freebie Friday Winner!

Who is our Freebie Friday winner today?

What did our winner win?  Keep on reading!!  And remember if you are a subscriber, then you are automatically entered in our weekly drawing for great prizes that include beauty items, cookware,  jewelry and more!  Lots of cool stuff!  Now, let’s announce this week’s lucky winner….

 

This week’s Freebie Friday winner is:

Pat French from Gilbert, Arizona! 

(winner selected through random.org)

Pat won….

pats prize

A beautiful Bath & Body Gift set from LUSH that is called the Lovely Gift and the goodies inside include the Secret Garden Bath Bomb, Ro’s Argan Body Conditioner and more.   Here is what is inside the lovely wrapped box….

in box



Pat also won a very special and pretty Prosperity Candle that is part of a line of beautiful handmade candles manufactured by female entrepreneurs in and from distressed regions of the globe.  candlesProsperity Candles work with women who are from distressed parts of the world who have survived conflict or natural disaster. They are now rebuilding their lives. They come from places that include Burma, Haiti, Rwanda, Iraq and Afghanistan. These women make these beautiful candles and other gifts.

Each candle sold helps give them more security and income. The money they earn through Prosperity Candle helps them invest in education, health care and food for their children.  So this is truly a gift that gives back and you can even connect with the woman who made the candle.  The website has a connect page where you can read her bio, see her picture and send her a message directly. This is such a cool gift that gives back.

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Driver’s Permit Day is Coming! Any Advice For This Anxious Mom?

Manic:  The sheer number of miles and wear and tear I put on my car with the never-ending rides my kids need to school, practice, rehearsal, appointments, games and more.

Managed:  In just 4 days, my first-born gets his driver’s permit.  Then in November, he will have his driver’s license.  I have to admit that I have mixed feelings, of both joy and anxiety.  So please give me some advice about how to best guide and teach him with his permit.

He is ready to drive me around starting next Wednesday when he gets his permit.  Am I ready?!

He is ready to drive me around starting next Wednesday when he gets his permit. Am I ready?!

Here are my questions….

1.  Did you hire a professional driving school?  I plan to for sure.  Suggestions on who to call?

2.  Did you let your child drive you on the freeway before or after the professional driving lessons occurred?

3. Do you have any rules in place while your child drives you around with the permit?  Like no radio turned on?

4.  Here in Arizona, we get six months to teach our kids how to drive, which seemed fine to me in the past, but now that our six months is starting, it doesn’ t seem so fine anymore.  Now it feels like a massive responsibility that is placed squarely on the shoulders of myself and my husband.  For those of you that have been down this road (literally), did six months seem like enough time to let your child free behind the wheel?

5.  How about advice on what types of driving skills to teach.  Defensive driving comes to my mind as well as the right-away, yielding, pedestrians rules, etc.  What additional skills did you find were helpful to teach?  How about what to do in a skid?

6.  Did you let your kid drive you around every single day during the 6-month period to get the utmost experience?

7.  When did you let your child drive you around at night?

8.  Some of you have advised that we do this in stages.  First let junior drive us around parking lots.  Then the neighborhood.  Then the side streets, main streets, followed by freeways.  Your thoughts on this?

9.  And last but not least, advice for how to manage my own Mama stress as I sit next to him teaching and guiding, but without the comfort of having my own steering wheel and brake pedal?  I will take advice in this area, too!

So as you can see, this Type A mom isn’t so sure that I’m going to be a good driving teacher, but I have no choice.  That time has arrived and it is my responsibility to get him as experienced as possible before that scary and exciting day arrives on his 16th birthday.  On that day that he so anticipates in November, I have to step back and wave goodbye to him as he drives away on his own, for the first time.  Boy, that is getting here fast now and in some ways, I’m ready and in some ways, I’m not.  Here we go.   The teenage driving journey begins!

Freebie Friday Winner!

Who is our Freebie Friday winner today?

What did our winner win?  Keep on reading!!  And remember if you are a subscriber, then you are automatically entered in our weekly drawing for great prizes that include beauty items, cookware,  jewelry and more!  Lots of cool stuff!  Now, let’s announce this week’s lucky winner….

 

This week’s Freebie Friday winner is:

Kelly D’Ambrosio from Albany, Georgia!  

(winner selected through random.org)

Kelly won….

Just in time for Mother’s Day, a beautiful Bath & Body Gift set from LUSH that is called A Mother’s Day In Paradise gift set…mom gift

 

This beautiful gift box is packed with luxurious bath items from LUSH that include the Secret Garden Bath Bomb, the Comforter, which is LUSH’s all-time, best-selling bubble bar, Dream Cream body lotion and more!  Congratulations Kelly and thanks so much for being a managedmoms.com subscriber.  We appreciate you!

 

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Bugged By Bugs? What To Do About Our Desert Pests

Manic:  The number of Facebook posts that I noticed the last few weeks that talked about the unwelcome visitors that have arrived with the Spring season.  It seems like everyday I’m reading about scorpion sightings, worries about bee stings, black widows and more.  Speaking of those three pests, in the 8 years that we have lived in our home, we have dealt with all three all these types.  Not fun!

Managed:  Accepting a guest post from Jim LaBrie, pest expert and owner of  Bug & Weed Mart, a do-it-yourself retail store that specializes in bug and weed prevention.  He has some great recommendations about what to do in our homes to help prevent visits and stings from these very unwelcome creatures.  He first describes the different types of bugs and their stings and then he provides some great prevention recommendations, so be sure to check this out…

Jim says:

Scorpions, Spiders, Mosquitos, Oh My!

Living where the average annual temperature is 84.5, means Valley of the Sun residents enjoy a lot of outdoor time. It also means sharing our home with a number of potentially dangerous bugs. While some are certainly more dangerous than others, it is important to be aware and to know what you can do to protect your house and children from these precarious pests.

Scorpions

The most well-known desert dweller to send fear down our spines is the scorpion. While it is true that a scorpion sting can be dangerous, it is the common Bark Scorpion that is most dangerous to very young children and infants and those over 80. arizona-bark-scorpion-museum2.utep.eduUnfortunately, the Bark Scorpion is also very agile and can crawl up smooth walls and under ceilings.

Spiders

Black widow spider image-sicb.orgAs spiders go, the Black Widow has the most potent venom of any spider on earth, but they fortunately have very little of it. A bite from a Black Widow would be most dangerous to a child three years-old and younger. The more dangerous spider is the Brown Recluse, which is not native to Arizona, but finds its way here in shipments. A sting from a Brown Recluse can cause the skin to die and untreated may result in the loss of a limb.

Bees

Unless you have an allergy, a single bee sting is of little concern and can be easily treated. The real danger is when they swarm and spring in Arizona is bee swarm season. bee-swarm-franklinbees.co.nzIf confronted with a swarm of bees, don’t freeze;  keep moving, get indoors as soon as possible and don’t try to take cover in water—bees will wait for you!

Mosquitos

Ten years ago mosquitos in Arizona were scarce, but today our state is considered a hot bed for the West Nile Virus.  Symptoms for West Nile Virus includes fever, headache, and body aches, nausea, vomiting, and sometimes swollen lymph glands or a skin rash on the chest, stomach and back. Fortunately only one to three percent of people with WNV will develop a serious disease, according to the Maricopa Environmental Services, however, it’s still important to be aware of these potentially dangerous pests.

Bug Off

The best way to protect your kids from potential harm is by reducing the opportunities for pests to make your home theirs.

1.       Clear out the clutter

Keep areas clean around the perimeter of your home. Remove dried leaves and shrubbery, where bugs love to hide and multiply. Sweep under patio furniture, and remove spider webs under eaves and around doors. Stack wood piles off the ground to eliminate the opportunity for scorpions and spiders to hide and nest.

2.       Keep things dry

Repair leaky faucets, always empty your kiddie pool, remove any stagnant water and be sure fountains are in working order and running to keep water moving. As little as two ounces of water can become a breeding ground for hundreds of mosquito. If you have a backwash pit for your pool this can also be a hot spot for scorpions and spiders to nest and breed.

3.       Be proactive about prevention

There are a variety of products available for you to safely use around the perimeter of your home and yard that will keep pest away. Granules can be sprinkled as little as four times a year and soaked into the ground with the hose so it can sink in and kill larvae. If you find your yard infiltrated with bees, use Pro Zap, and they will usually leave within one to two days.  There are also sprays you can use around your door ways, windows and your garage that will help eliminate crickets, which are a big source of food for spiders and scorpions. Lastly, when you or your children are outside during dawn or dusk, use a bug spray like Deet to keep yourself safe.

 

About our guest writer:

Jim LaBrie is a father, a grandfather and the owner of Bug & Weed Mart, a do-it-yourself retail store that specializes in bug and weed prevention, with five location. To learn more about pest prevention and protection you can visit www.bugweedmart.com or on the Bug & Weed Mart Facebook page.

 

 

 

 

Weird Fortune in Cookie Came True

This is what my fortune in my cookie said that I opened two weeks ago….cookieI thought that was so strange so I took a picture of it.  And sure enough, I did sort of have an alien appear to me in the form of a computer hacker.  This rude person caused me some inconvenience, but he also did me a favor.  He forced me to meet with my webmaster and to learn as much as I can about online security.  And what I learned may be helpful to you as well, so read on.

But first I must thank you all for your support, your kind emails and especially those of you that told me to keep the website going because you value this blog and our tips so much.  Thank you!  You made a tough week a little lighter and I appreciate that.

I’m not going to tell you too much about the hacker because I’m currently working with both the Phoenix Police Department and the FBI Online Crimes Unit on the investigation.  However, I can tell you at this point that this silly person didn’t harm me or the website….yes, I’m hacked about the hacking (pun intended), but I’m glad that the security measures that we have in place (which have since been beefed up) kept his antics to a minimum.  But here is what I did learn….

*I was smart to have a webmaster in place and on call who is constantly monitoring my website, along with myself.  If you have a website, I highly recommend hiring a webmaster.  I use Matt with GreenishOrange and I highly recommend his services.

*The police officer that I’m working with on this case told me that we all should change our passwords on all of our online accounts every six months or every quarter.

*Dumb me used the same password on two accounts.  Don’t do that.  I was lazy and didn’t want to have to think of yet another password when I opened my Twitter account, so the hacker also hacked my Twitter.   Make sure that every account you own has a different password, period.

*My webmaster told me about a free app that gives your email accounts extra protection.  It is called Google Authenticator and if you sign up for this free service, you get an extra password for extra security each time you sign into your email account.   Here is how it works…you sign on to your email as usual with your user name and your password, but then you check your text message on your phone for your second password that is sent to you from Google Authenticator.  Your email won’t open until both passwords have been typed in and since it is sent to your smart phone, would be hackers can’t get in, even if they somehow get your user name and first password.  Pretty cool.

So that is my update for now.  Thank you for your patience as I take a few days to get caught up.  The hacker didn’t hurt me, but he did force me to take some serious time out to implement all kinds of security measures on all of my online accounts.  Sadly, hacking is a sign of the times and it is happening to a lot of us, even big company websites like Bashas and AJs grocery stores recently.  You may remember that Twitter was hacked a few weeks back, too.

What online security measures do you take to secure your passwords and online activity?  Share here in the comments section as we are all in this crazy online world together.  Hard to believe that my childhood didn’t include computers and cell phones.  My, how fast things change!

 

 

Spring & Summer Styles That Flatter Your Figure

Manic:  Trying to update and add a few warm weather pieces to my wardrobe, while staying on a budget and finding pieces that are flattering on me to boot.

Managed:  Interviewed my favorite fashion expert, Heather Cisek owner of both the Purple Skirt Boutique in Ahwatukee and Dominique R in Scottsdale to get the lowdown on the trends that are fashionable and flattering on our figures, too.  Heather taught me about the right kind of stripes to wear, how to make denim shorts work and more.  Plus I found some affordable fashions at Kohl’s, slimming undergarments and a line of dresses that the celebs wear that truly take you down a size or more.  I had fun doing my fashion research on this one, so check it out…

Freebie Friday Winner

Who is our Freebie Friday winner today?

What did our winner win?  Keep on reading!!  And remember if you are a subscriber, then you are automatically entered in our weekly drawing for great prizes that include beauty items, cookware,  jewelry and more!  Lots of cool stuff!  Now, let’s announce this week’s lucky winner….

 

This week’s Freebie Friday winner is:

Shelly Belly from Cleveland, Ohio!  

(winner selected through random.org)

Shelly won….

prize

Shelly won a bag packed with beauty products like the Goody Doublewear Headwear/Necklace, a Soho foundation sponge set, LUSH Popcorn lip scrub and much more!  All of these products have been tested by managedmoms.com and all work great!

Congratulations Shelly and thanks so much for being a managedmoms.com subscriber!

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In Honor Of My Brother, I Share This Story

My baby brother has been gone for 11 years now, but I think of him every single day.  He is one of the first things I remember when I wake in the morning.  I remember that he is no longer physically with us since that dreaded day in 2002 when I got the call that he was on life support.  I will never forget that moment because it changed me to the core.  My babies were only 4 years old and 9 months old and having to care daily for them is what kept me going.  I really can’t describe the raw pain and anguish that I experienced that first year after losing my brother….who was also a best friend to me.  Although we were 12 years apart in age, we were very close and he flew to Phoenix all the way from Maryland several times a year to see me.  He especially enjoyed being a young uncle and my kids really dug him.

Our precious last visit with Uncle Shane.

Our precious last visit with Uncle Shane.

In addition to my supportive family and to my daily duties of caring for a preschooler and a baby, the other thing that kept me and my heartbroken Mother going was the fact that Shane had been a card-carrying organ donor, which is an usually mature decision for a then 22-year-old to have made.  And he had just simply checked the yes box to being an organ donor when he excitedly obtained his driver’s license.  So when he was taken from us in the accident, and my Mom was told that he could not be saved, she honored his wishes and donated his organs.  Receiving letters from the organ recipients has been one of the best gifts…and healing aid…that we have been given.  Of course, the best gift of all was the gift of our sweet Shane.  We will never understand why such a beautiful, bright, energetic, promising young man (who fiercely loved his family) was taken from us, but we will always be thankful for the 22 years we got with our Sunshiney Shane (he was always smiling, so that is my nickname for him).

So when I came upon this story about another family who lost thier precious child and sister, I had to share this to honor our Shane, his organ donations, his memory and to remind everyone that organ donation is the best gift you can leave behind.  This story shows the parents actually meeting and hearing the heartbeat of the Arizona mother who received their daughter’s heart.  And this family started the Taylor’s Gift Foundation, too.  Please watch this beautiful story and spread the word about the power of organ donation.  Oh and definitely symbolic, just the other day my Mom was telling me on the phone that the trees that Shane planted for her have bloomed beautifully this Spring.